A
sermon from Mark 9:33-50 by Lyndon Perry
I’d
like to share three stories that have to do with divorce, but not just the
marriage kind. The real issue is separating ourselves from others, ending
relationships, cutting off contact friends and strangers alike.
It’s a
pressing topic for us today for we live in a very fragmented society. We may
not agree on much, but we can almost all agree we are a divided nation. Maybe
the most divided society in recent memory. You don’t need to look very far for
examples. Social media has made it the norm to “de-friend” someone over the
slightest provocation.
And this has
disastrous effects; all of our most important relationships seem to suffer.
Think about it. Are people having marital difficulties? The temptation to
divorce one’s spouse seems to be a “go-to” possibility for so many people. It’s
almost the default option nowadays.
But not only
that, we are often tempted to divorce or separate ourselves from family members,
friends, even God, at the drop of a hat. Just cut them out of our lives.
It
used to be, if “the going got tough, the tough got going” and they worked
harder to build stronger relationships. Now, if the going gets tough, people
often bail out.
The
insidious nature of wanting to separate is inherent in all of us. Maybe these
three stories will shed some light on the dilemma and offer a way back to
wholeness.